We deal with this through the use of pre-openers.A pre-opener is a social question that girls have heard before, which allows them to contextualize the interaction.

• 这种情况下，我们一般使用一些常用套词先做铺垫，这些套词，这些女孩都以前听到过，这样有助于她们把自己定位在特定的场景中，从而使她们提高对你的注意力。