Even for those families who can afford such lavish spending, striking a compromise between spoiling the kids and denying them is tricky, but possible.

• 即便那些承受得住这样大手大脚花钱的家庭，也要在宠惯孩子和拒绝孩子的要求之间平衡折中，--这是件颇费脑筋的事，不过这是有可能的。