Do not believe any of what you hear and less than 50% of what you see. Your spouse will speak in absolute negatives because he is hurting and scared.

• 不要相信任何外面听来的话,并且对于你看见的,不要相信超过于50%25。你的另一半会用最坏的语气和你说最坏的事,不为什麽,只因为其实他现在很痛苦且很害怕。