收到这些明信片之后，我开始明白为什么有人愿意向别人倾诉自己隐秘的心结，因为这样就使一部分压力转移到了倾听者的身上，这样就能为他们自己“减压”。

• When I received postcards, I started to understand that when someone shares a dark secret, they lighten their load. But the other person walks away a little heavier.