You must deny oneself, achieve the noble boundary, married you should willfully on yours love person body, should not accept, should not transmit your charm to let others love you.

• 你要克己，达到高尚的境界，结了婚你就应该专心一意地在你的爱人身上，不应该接受、也不应该传达你的魅力让别人来爱你。”