Whereas the sadist wreaks sexual violence on an unwilling victim, the masochist educates a sympathetic partner to be the cold and cruel woman he desires.

• 鉴于受虐者施行性暴力于不乐意的受害者，受虐者则是将一个赋有同情心的玩伴培养成一个他所欲求的冷酷且残酷的女人。