When this happens the habit of blaming outside factors for our lot in life inevitably sets in, and we lose ourselves in a negative spiral of envy, strife, disappointment, anger, and reproach.

• 当我们陷入这种幻想时，对于我们生活的际遇很难避免不去激活我们责怪外在因素的习惯，然后我们就会迷失在嫉妒、争吵、失望、愤怒、以及责难的负面漩涡中。