This can take the form of irritation, impatience, a somber mood, a desire to hurt, anger, rage, depression, a need to have some drama in your relationship, and so on.

• 痛苦体的形式可以是：烦躁、无耐心、阴沉心情、伤害冲动、生气、怒、抑郁、需要爱情中有某种戏剧性等等。