There is a wholeness about the man or woman who has learned that he or she is strong enough to go through a tragedy and survive ,who can lose someone and still feel like a complete person .

• 人生的完整性还在于一个男人或女人懂得一个道理：他（或她）发现自己能勇敢地面对人生悲剧而继续生存，能够在失去亲人后依然表现出一个完整的人的风范。