Most men do not realize that a process of wooing is necessary after marriage, and many well-brought-up women do not realize what harm they do to marriage by remaining reserved and physically aloof.

• 很多男人不懂得结婚以后还需要有求爱的过程，多数教养太好的女人也没有意识到她们的矜持与冷淡给婚姻造成多大的伤害。