I mean finding something you have in common with another person on a spiritual and philosophical level: likes,dislikes,worldviews,ways of thinking,and attitudes toward life.

• 我说的是寻找你与他人在精神方面和人生哲学方面的共同点：喜欢什么、不喜欢什么、世界观、思维方式以及对生活的态度。