做十几岁孩子的父母新所碰到的麻烦是，一旦管教不当，他们可能使大家的生活都很痛苦。 The trouble with being parents of teenage children is that once you lose you grip, they can make life miserable for everyone.
当我们得知那走失的小孩被认为确实丢了，而不再被寻找时，心里觉得很痛苦。 All of us took the news hard when we learnt that the missing child had been given up at last.
他觉察出，谈这事使她很痛苦，他就不谈了。 Seeing that the discussion was painful to her? he dropped it.
